The key insight:
The higher you climb, the more people can see what you cannot, and the fewer of them will say so to your face.
Ask a senior leader what their biggest weakness is and most will give a real answer. Ask their team the same question and the answer is often different, sometimes sharply so, and the leader is usually the last person in the room to hear it. That gap between what a leader believes about themselves and what the people around them have quietly concluded is not a minor perception error. It is a leadership blind spot, and the uncomfortable pattern is that it tends to widen with seniority rather than close.
This is a companion piece to the leadership trait most executives overlook, which names one specific, high-cost blind spot, composure under pressure, and the derailment pattern that follows it. This article is the more general mechanism underneath that one example: why blind spots form in the first place, why seniority makes them structurally worse rather than better, and what a self-scored profile can and cannot do about it. If you want the practical method for closing the gap once you know it exists, self awareness at work covers the channels that actually supply accurate data about yourself.
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A blind spot is not stupidity or a lack of self-reflection. It forms through an entirely ordinary mechanism: the version of yourself you experience internally, intentions, effort, good reasons, is not the version other people experience, which is behaviour, tone and outcomes. Everyone runs this gap to some degree. What decides whether it stays small or grows into a real liability is how much accurate correction reaches you, and how willing you are to believe it when it does.
Two forces widen the gap by default. Self-serving bias makes it easier to attribute a tense meeting to the situation rather than to your own tone, because that account protects your self-image at close to zero cost. And confirmation bias means the evidence that fits your existing self-view is easier to recall than the evidence that contradicts it, so a leader who believes they are approachable will remember the times people spoke up and quietly forget the times a room went quiet instead.
The intuitive assumption is that more experience and more feedback opportunities should shrink a blind spot over time. The opposite tends to happen, for a structural reason rather than a personal one.
| As seniority rises | What tends to happen | Net effect on blind spots |
|---|---|---|
| Direct, unsolicited feedback | Falls, because fewer people feel safe correcting someone senior to them | Less raw material to work with |
| What feedback does arrive | Gets softened in transit, filtered by whoever is closest to you before it reaches you | Signal weakens further |
| Your own track record | Grows, which makes it easier to discount feedback that contradicts a proven self-image | Disconfirming evidence gets dismissed |
| Consequences of an unmanaged blind spot | Grow, because more people and more decisions sit downstream of your behaviour | Cost rises exactly as the signal weakens |
Read down that table and the pattern is not subtle. The information you would need to catch a blind spot early becomes scarcer at precisely the point in a career where an unmanaged one does the most damage. That is not a flaw in any individual leader. It is what the structure around senior roles does to feedback by default, and it does not correct itself without a deliberate move to counter it.
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The Leadership Psychometric takes 10 to 15 minutes and reveals your five core leadership traits and where you rank against senior professionals in your market.
Take the assessment →A structured self-assessment cannot see you the way your team does, and it should not be mistaken for a substitute for that view. What it can do is something narrower and still useful: score your own perception of yourself across a fixed set of dimensions and show you where that self-perception sits against normed patterns for people at a similar level. An unusually high self-score on a dimension where most senior leaders rate themselves more moderately is not proof of a blind spot, but it is exactly the kind of signal worth checking against an outside view before you trust your own read of it.
Take the free Leadership Psychometric on AssessYou to get that structured baseline. The ten to fifteen minute profile scores you across five dimensions, Vision Thinking, Execution Drive, Influencing Power, People Intelligence and Composure, and a free account shows you the five scores against the archetype they produce. It will not tell you what your team actually thinks of you. It will tell you which of your own answers are worth interrogating rather than trusting outright, which is the more honest and more useful starting point than assuming you already know.
Composure is the single most common blind spot in the senior conversations JOH Partners has, worked through in full in the leadership trait most executives overlook. The short version: a leader who believes they stay measured under real pressure is frequently the last person to learn that their team experiences something closer to volatility in exactly those moments, because the moments that would reveal the gap are also the moments a leader is least able to observe themselves accurately from the inside. It is one pattern among several worth checking, not the only one, but it is the one that recurs most often and derails the most careers when it goes unaddressed.
For the worked example of one specific, high-cost blind spot, see The Leadership Trait Most Executives Overlook. For more on how senior leaders are assessed, see the full Leadership collection.
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